She Comes First by Ian Kerner

Reviewed Date: May 20th, 2022

I have been delaying reviewing this book for almost 3 months. But still, I couldn’t collect my thoughts and present them clearly. I guess this review is going to be vague and incomplete.

There are so many misconceptions and assumptions about sex. To make matters worse, they wouldn’t like to talk about these concepts openly as if they are forbidden from conversations. She Comes First shatters (some) assumptions we (particularly men) have been conjuring up.

It is no doubt that sex predominantly revolves around men’s pleasure. If he is satisfied, then it is finished. But that leaves women out of the equation. This book, as the tagline suggests, was written for men, for pleasuring women.

I left the second part of the book as it is about practical information (how-to-do-it kind of stuff). It is not useful for me, at least not immediately. It feels strange to write these words while sitting on my virgin ass.

I recommend this to every man. It will be helpful. That’s all I can say. Uffff, the burden has been lifted.